I was really lucky because I did know quite a lot of other women at that time – other lesbians – who‘d been trying to get pregnant or had become pregnant or were about to become pregnant, so once I sort of emerged from the baby-stage of being just at home with my baby a lot of the time, I found I had a really good network of other lesbian mums with children of similar age and we made a habit of meeting up together whenever we could: we’d go on camps or we’d go on trips together; we’d have parties in each other’s gardens, barbeques, and the children all grew up knowing each other, and feeling safe and secure in the knowledge that they weren’t the only one – they weren’t the only child of a donor and they weren’t the only child of a lesbian mum, or lesbian mums.
Ajamu X talks about his upbringing in Huddersfield, his nights out in the area as a young queer black man, and his work and study on the subject of black/queer archiving.
Rob explains his motivation for adoption and talks through the process that led to him and his partner becoming 'the first gay male couple to be assessed in the north of England'.