Seeking asylum in Wakefield
Karim describes the trauma of being detained in the UK and the helplessness he felt adjusting to life in a new country.
An international queer community
In this short video, recorded at Leeds Pride in 2018, Finlay talks about the varied international events they've taken part in since joining a queer choir.
'A very defining moment in my life'
Olivia talks about acknowledging her identity as black and queer and the difficulties she faced in coming out to her Caribbean dad.
Pride and partnership
Simon and Craig's civil partnership happened to coincide with Leeds' first ever Pride march, leading to some amusing scenarios...
Becoming a lesbian mum in the 1980s
Val talks about wanting a child and her journey to becoming a lesbian mum in the 1980s.
Vanessa, her mum and 'Empire'
Vanessa remembers how TV show 'Empire' helped her have a conversation with her mum about her bisexuality and how it changed their relationship.
A magazine for young lesbians in Bradford
Norrina talks about 'In Yer Face' magazine, made by and for young lesbians in the 1990s.
Disability, sexuality and gender
Leeds Disabled People’s Organisation (LDPO) and WYQS volunteer Gill Crawshaw arranged a group recording to focus on disability, sexuality and gender. In the interview AJ, Becca, Leo and Kirsty reflect on coming out, queer spaces, friendships and relationships.
Cover stories and denial
Ruth feared that coming out during her nursing training in the 1980s would affect her future career and she would be seen as 'untrustworthy'. Having distant boyfriends and denying rumours seemed like the safest approach.
Teaching under Section 28
Following the introduction of Section 28, teachers had to rethink the way they taught certain subjects. Char remembers the impact on a colleague's 'diversity library' at school.
Being out in prison
As a lesbian working with offenders in a West Yorkshire prison, Nic says it's important to 'break down stigma and stereotypes'.
Seventeen years down the mines
Geoff talks about the difficulties of being gay and working as a miner.
Life in a shared gay house in Leeds
In this written piece, author Stevan Alcock remembers the feeling of belonging he experienced as a member of a gay communal household throughout the 1970s.
Slogans and chants
Three former members of the AIDS awareness activist group, ACT UP Leeds, look through a collection of old badges and reminisce about popular slogans and chants from the early 1990s.
An introduction to gay culture
On a trip to London in the 1980s, David learns about gay culture from Capital Gay newspaper.
The Lesbian Identity Project
Angela talks about the background to the Lesbian Identity Project (LIP) which aimed to capture the histories of lesbians from the north of England.
Being feminine and queer
Jess talks about coming out, labels, and issues of visibility as someone who is feminine-presenting.
No hiding, no shame
Leeds Pride weekend in 2018 saw the soft launch of Project Freedom, which Anna founded. She talks about being out and proud, and enjoying Pride!
The aftermath of abuse
Roy recalls the devastating effects of being sexually abused by an older man during his teenage years, including the impact on his family, education and mental health.
Friendship and support
Sean talks of his friendship with Darren and how they responded to Darren's HIV diagnosis through 'hard partying', finding community support from older men in leather bars.
Non-binary labels and pronouns
In a conversation with their mum, Kellan talks about different words describing gender and sexuality, and how these have changed since the 1970s.
Being trans in Cottingley
Ash talks about living in a small community and finding support and social groups as a trans person.
Young and queer in Todmorden
Kiya and Leah reflect on life as a young gay couple in Todmorden.
Misunderstandings about being bi
John talks about how he's been viewed with suspicion by gay men and how his bisexuality is just one part of him.
Hiding lesbian magazines
Rachel remembers how she lied to her parents about receiving lesbian magazines through the post and how she moved away to polytechnic where she attempted to join the Lesbian and Gay Society.
Gay Abandon and the joy of singing
Jane talks about running Gay Abandon, Leeds' LGBT choir, and how singing helps to bring people together.
Hebden Bridge in the early 1990s
Steve and Richard remember being part of an influx of gay couples moving to Hebden Bridge in the early 1990s.
Discovering the Gay Liberation Front
Patrick learns about the Gay Liberation Front from reading Oz magazine in the 1970s.
The UK's first national trans conference
A reading of the Yorkshire Post's report on the social event held at Leeds' Guildford Hotel to tie in with 'The First National TV/TS Conference' in March 1974.
Why Pride is important
In this video, recorded at Happy Valley Pride in 2018, human rights campaigner Peter Tatchell, explains why it's as important as ever to celebrate Pride.
'I didn't seem to have a mind of my own'
Steve reflects on the influence of his mother and Catholicism on his upbringing, and how he felt 'easily persuaded' into living a conventional life.
'You haven't changed a bit, have you!'
Jessica talks about her transition and how she discovered she was intersex.
Exploring gender through dance
Wieke Eringa talks about the positive relationship between an international dance project 'Performing Gender' and the Leeds-based 'Gender Moves', which featured members of the local LGBTIQ+ community.
Kirsty's queer zines
Kirsty challenges stereotypes and celebrates all things queer via the medium of self-published zines.
Perceptions of lesbian motherhood
Sally talks about her children calling her the 'spare mummy' because she hadn't given birth to them, and how it feels to be an older lesbian parent.
'And there was this girl...'
Marvina remembers when she first met a gay black woman who was 'gay in a masculine way' and her surprise at finding out where she was from.
Coming out to your grandma
Emily recalls her grandmother's response when she came out to her as lesbian and the way her grandmother saw her marriage as comparable to a traditional heterosexual one.
A group for queer adults with learning disabilities
Group member Alan describes Wakefield 2BU, a safe social space for LGBTQ adults with learning disabilities and/or autism.
New freedoms, new risks?
Male homosexuality was partially decriminalised in the UK in 1967 but, as Robert explains, this meant gay men could be targeted by police in new ways.
Blayds Bar
Maggie remembers going to the lesbian-friendly Blayds Bar in Leeds in the late 1990s, and how it compared to small-town Cornwall, where she ran a club during the 1980s.
'Oh, you'll grow out of it…'
Helen recalls how her gender identity as a child in the 1950s wasn't understood by her parents and how there was the threat of the 'mental hospital'.
A 'rebirth' in Huddersfield
When Melissa moved to Huddersfield to go to university, she decided to be completely out as a gay woman, and it was on Tinder that she found love.
Finding a community on Tumblr
Being part of the first generation to grow up on social media, Vex talks about finding community and exploring sex and sexuality on Tumblr.
Offering support on the women's minibus
Driving the women's minibus at the University of Leeds gave Jackie a chance to talk about being lesbian and present herself as a role model but it led to unexpected consequences.
James's letters and coming out
James appeared as a 'gay teenager' in a 1988 BBC2 documentary, receiving letters of support - and criticism - as a result.
LGBT peace activism
Susan considers the links between her sexuality and peace activism.
Leeds' first Trans Pride
Kit describes how it felt to take part in the first Trans Pride in Leeds in 2018.
A welcoming church
As a Methodist Minister, Bob describes the 2018 Trans Day of Remembrance held at Todmorden Central Methodist Church and talks about his welcoming approach to LGBTIQ+ communities.
Identity and shifting terms
Robbie considers different ideas and terms around identity, having cross-dressed since the 1960s.
Trans swimming sessions at Bramley Baths
Dylan went along to a swimming session aimed at trans and non-binary people in Leeds and describes what it was like.
Coming out as trans at school
Koban describes the process of coming out as a trans teenager, from identifying with people on TV to asking for a change of name on school records.
SpeedQueen
Suzy talks about running SpeedQueen and the importance of tackling intolerance and sexism by creating LGBT+ friendly club nights.
'A lifetime of entertaining'
Harvey worked in entertainment for all of his life, performing magic, and working in the circus and theatre. Here he talks about his role as the Entertainment Manager at a holiday camp, his matching day-glo outfits and 'camp bingo'.
Settling into Hebden Bridge
Dawn talks about moving to Hebden Bridge and feeling like a 'baby dyke all over again' as she settled in to the community.
Coming out as trans and queer
Flo talks about coming to their queerness and transness in a very politicised way.
Section 28 and teaching in a Catholic school
Gez describes how Section 28 impacted on his teaching in a Catholic school in the late 1980s.
'Without lesbian feminists...'
Lal talks about the importance of remembering lesbian feminist activism.
Joining the Campaign for Homosexual Equality
Raymond describes joining CHE (the Campaign for Homosexual Equality) and going to his first meet-up with the Leeds group in the 1970s.
Queer culture in Leeds
Kathleen remembers being drawn to Leeds' queer culture and the overlaps between squatting, queer parties and Leeds Queer Film Fest.
Lesley's jumpers
Lesley lived in Leeds for 30 years. She was a founding member of Leeds Lesbian Line and knitted the jumpers in this video to celebrate lesbian experience.
A protest to 'Reclaim Leeds Pride'
Sky explains the reasons for the protest blockade of Leeds Pride in 2017.
Working with Sage
Keith explains why he enjoys volunteering for Sage, the network for LGBT+ people aged over 50 in Leeds.
Leeds' inclusive running club
Members of the LGBT+ athletics group Leeds Frontrunners discuss how they built up their membership and aim to foster a sense of community.
'Queer' as a term of abuse
David remembers a bullying incident at school over a new jacket in 1960s Halifax.
Being visible in Bradford
After her move from Pakistan to Bradford, Hafsa found she was able to open up about her sexuality.
The campaign for a GaySoc at Leeds College of Music
Clive recalls how he campaigned for a GaySoc at Leeds College of Music in 1986, with the support of Ian McKellen and the University of Leeds' Student Union.
How Leeds' Viaduct pub became a gay venue
Terry George recounts the story of how he went from owning Fibre and Mission to buying the pub across the road and giving it a new LGBT identity.
Realising you're non-binary
Quinn talks about being non-binary and and how they were always uncomfortable being labelled as a man.
The shadow of AIDS
John remembers hearing about AIDS for the first time in 1981 in Leeds and how the situation developed globally.
'For the record...'
Ajamu X talks about his upbringing in Huddersfield, his nights out in the area as a young queer black man, and his work and study on the subject of black/queer archiving.
AIDS and the deaf community
Howard describes the lack of information and support deaf gay men received when the impact of AIDS started to be felt in the 1980s, and how it affected a friend of his who was deaf and HIV positive.
Growing up gay in a closed community
David recalls the difficulties in discovering his sexuality while growing up in a Plymouth Brethren community.
Setting up a bi group in 1989
Chris talks about setting up a bi group in Leeds in 1989 and recalls how bisexuals were marginalised at that time.
Biphobia within the queer community
Sue describes feeling like an imposter for being bisexual within the 1980s lesbian and gay scene in Leeds.
A poem for Bi Awareness Month 2018
Vanessa reads her poem, which challenges myths and stereotypes about bisexuality.
'Stuck right in the middle of gender and biological sex'
Pete describes changing attitudes to intersex births, their experiences with the medical profession and how they feel 'invisible' in the medical records but 'very visible in public'.
Getting arrested at Greenham Common
Lynn describes the impact that Greenham Common Women's Peace Camp had on her and how she planned to get arrested and spend a week in prison, with unexpected consequences.
Fighting for the people who can’t be heard
Aaron talks about his sexual health work for Yorkshire MESMAC, including outreach with Traveller communities, and the importance of recognizing that not everyone can be out and proud.
Thirty years of World AIDS Day
In a speech written to mark World AIDS Day 2018 in Leeds, John Roe looks back on how life has changed since his own HIV diagnosis in 1988.
Queer clubbing and Love Muscle
Michael talks about the different clubbing scenes that influenced him in setting up Love Muscle in Leeds.
Family acceptance
Assif explains that any discussion of dating can be awkward within his family, regardless of sexuality.
A feeling of belonging
Paul (aka Marigold Adams) talks about becoming part of the LGBT community, working at The Sun in Bradford and inspiring people through drag.
The importance of seeing yourself represented
Tristan remembers the impact of a 'Doctor Who' episode and how it gave him a representation of bisexuality.
A residential for black queer kids
Norrina describes how it felt to be on a residential in the Lake District for young black queers.
How trade unions can support LGBTIQ+ people
Steven, a member of Unite The Union's LGBT Committee, outlines some of the support union officers can provide to LGBTIQ+ workers.
The Brick Box
Rosie talks about setting up The Brick Box, a queer friendly bar in Bradford, and the importance of having a safer spaces policy 'The Declaration of Love'
Queer Spirit Over Orlando
Bruce describes his reaction to the Orlando nightclub shooting of 2016, which led him to create 'Queer Spirit Over Orlando', an artwork 'intended for healing'.
Challenging the idea that 'homosexuality is unAfrican'
Samra talks about challenging ideas about homosexuality in Africa and the importance of activism coming from a place of love.
Positive and Confident Together
Members of the peer-led PACT group at Leeds Skyline describe how they support each other as gay and bisexual men living with HIV.
Putting up walls
James remembers coming out to his dad and the stages their relationship went through afterwards.
'We have a history... We're not alone'
Nikolai reflects on Pride as a time of solidarity and shared history in this short video recorded at Happy Valley Pride in 2018.
On being a soft butch
Cutting her hair short helped Paula become confident about her identity and feel part of a lesbian community. She talks about being a soft butch and how others view her.
Doing your own therapy
Wendy remembers being invited to a writing group and dealing with her difficult childhood and the death of her brother by writing 'Jellybabies', an autobiographical play performed in Bradford.
The Women's Workshop in Leeds
Sue describes her role in the 'Women in Manual Trades' collective in 1970s Leeds.
Drag shows at Wakefield's Zeus bar
Steven, aka Wakefield's legendary drag queen Madam Connie Lingus, remembers some outrageous performances in the early 2000s.
Huddersfield Pride '81
After continued raids on Huddersfield's Gemini Club, London Pride decided to move the national march to Huddersfield in 1981 in support of club owner John Addy. In this clip Peter describes the march and the presence of the National Front.
The first trans person to speak at a Conservative Party Conference
Sue talks about her speech at the 2018 Conservative Party Conference, the impact of a letter from Theresa May and her views on the Gender Recognition Act (GRA) reform.
Lesbian and gay tea dances in Saltaire and Leeds
Ian reminisces about ballroom dancing lessons, holding tea dances and organising Victor Victoria balls.
'Coming home' to Pride
For Dean, going to London Pride in 1994 with his sister felt like 'coming home'. (Video recorded at Leeds Pride 2018.)
Founding the Yorkshire Trans Choir
Claye explains the need for a new choir to suit the voices of trans people, and treats us to a little singing!
Delivering the Pink Paper
For eight years Yvette delivered LGBT newspaper The Pink Paper to locations across Leeds and Bradford.
Dungarees and Docs
Jo remembers the lesbian dress code of dungarees, Doc Martens and short hair, and she talks of finding role models in US lesbian poets.
A film festival 'outside the sparkly, white, gay male norm'
Clare talks about the DIY ethos of Leeds Queer Film Festival which began in 2005, and the need to see representation of different realities on the screen.
'That's something for you to take back to Yorkshire'
Linda braves the Gateways Club in London and has her first dance and kiss with a woman.
Setting up the 'Be LGBTQ R'n'B With Edges' club night
Jordan created a new club night with R'n'B at its heart, as an alternative to more traditional gay venues.
Shouted at in the street
Lewis shares two anecdotes about dealing with insults and homophobia from strangers in public, in a video recorded at Leeds Pride 2018.
World AIDS Day 1990: Action in Leeds
Gill remembers a demo from her activist days with ACT UP Leeds, which didn't quite go to plan.
'I'm a mother who became a lesbian'
Clare talks about coming out as a lesbian aged 50 and her teenage son's reaction.
The first non-binary person to adopt in the UK
Dylan shares their experiences of the adoption process and remembers their excitement when they first met their adopted child.
Gay personal ads and phone lines
The Older and Bolder group in Bradford remember personal ads in Gay Times and saucy phone lines.
Campaigning for gender neutral toilets
Riley talks about the impact of a NUS LGBT conference which led to them being part of the Trans Caucus and campaigning for gender neutral toilets.
Introducing the Friends of Dorothy
Craig explains why he decided to set up the Friends of Dorothy, an LGBT social group aimed at older people, who meet regularly in Leeds.
Jen's coming out story
A written memoir contributed by a Leeds woman born in the 1960s, who came out later in life.
A tour of cruising sites in Leeds
Pat's work for sexual health charity MESMAC has given him an insight into the different cruising sites in Leeds, how they have changed and who uses them. He gives us a tour of the Ridge in Armley, Fleet Lane and Black Hill Lane.
Queerology, a Leeds-based art collective
Luna talks about the reasons for setting up the Queerology art collective and the exhibitions held in Leeds in 2017.
Coming out against the backdrop of AIDS
Mark recalls how AIDS gave him 'a fight to join' and enabled him to feel part of the LGBT community when he came out.
'A chance to dream'
Kuchu Pride reflects on a relationship that has helped her find healing, and the feeling that she now has a future after a traumatic past.
Keighley's LGBT group
Richard, a member of Bradford's Equity Partnership and an LGBT group in Keighley, talks about some of the activities he and his friends get up to. (Recorded at Happy Valley Pride 2018.)
Acceptance and respect at a Buddhist retreat
Shakyapada talks about her experience of being accepted as a trans woman at a Buddhist training retreat and the need to be respectful of different viewpoints.
'My understanding of being gay was very negative'
Ali explains how his sexuality clashed with his cultural and religious identity, causing him to suppress being gay for many years.
Leeds Student Radio's LGBT+ show
Joe, the presenter of Leeds Student Radio's LGBT+ programme, talks about his show's ethos and music policy.
The importance of finding community
After Ruth came out in 2017 she wanted to explore LGBT groups and find other lesbians. She talks about how a games group for women in Huddersfield was a starting point for her lesbian social life.
At school in Batley
Laura talks about what it's like being a trans girl at school in Batley, what support is available for LGBTIQ+ pupils, and how sexuality and gender are covered in lessons.
Coming out and dealing with homophobia
Richard explores his own 'coming out' and recounts two homophobic incidents to make sure they're not forgotten: 'I tell these stories because it's important'.
'Too old to be gay'?
James talks about various relationships he's had throughout his life and how, at the age of 42, he made new friends and choices, despite worrying he was too old for a 'gay' lifestyle.
Supporting the miners and protesting at Greenham
Gill talks about her politics and activism, within and outside the Labour Party, supporting the Miners' Strike of 1984-5 and protesting at Greenham Common Women's Peace Camp.
The infamous Clitty Rubquick
Addie introduces her comic alter-ego, the pink-wearing, piano-playing Clitty Rubquick, who has toured the country with a mixture of stand-up and songs.
Dancing Bear
Director Jamie Fletcher describes the theatre show 'Dancing Bear', which explores gender, sexuality and faith, and was performed at the West Yorkshire Playhouse in 2017.
'I feel like I’m just the guy I should’ve been'
Fred talks about his 'trans history' and how he told his parents about his gender dysphoria.
Wild Lavender gay men's housing project
Andy talks about setting up and living at the housing co-op Wild Lavender, and the Gay Men's Weeks at Laurieston Hall, Edinburgh, in the 1980s.
Transphobia at work
Gem talks about starting a new job and experiencing institutional transphobia which almost made them give up the position.
Coming out again and again
Gay couple Stuart and Mike talk about assumptions made by colleagues in the workplace, and how coming out is an ongoing process rather than a one-time deal.
Trans pregnancy and parenting in Hebden Bridge
Yuval talks about his reasons for moving from Israel to Hebden Bridge, how his pregnancies have impacted on his gender identity and how his children view their family.
The Angels of Freedom
Rob talks about the founding of a volunteer group offering support and information to vulnerable people out on the scene.
Ideas about feminism and lesbian separatism
Members of Sage Women's Space discuss what feminism means to them, their views on men and the importance of lesbian separatism.
A different kind of trans support group
Amelia talks about the support she gets as a trans woman from her medieval battle re-enactment society.
What was the ACT UP movement in Leeds?
An extract from a talk given by Mick Ward in September 2018 on the history of the AIDS activist group, ACT UP Leeds.
Fetish, fashion and going out in Leeds
Johann, the founder of Leeds Fetishmen, describes his fetish gear, music on the scene, and how fetish groups are starting to venture into 'everyday bars'.
Cravats and suede shoes
Barry remembers his first visit to a 'sweet shop' (gay bar) in the late 1950s and talks about the tell-tale signs of men wearing cravats and suede shoes.
The growth of Leeds Pride
Ali talks about how Leeds Pride has developed over the years.
A night out at the Gemini
Ian remembers plucking up the courage to visit the Gemini, a gay club in Huddersfield in the 1980s, and the fashions he saw inside.
Todmorden and Hebden Bridge
Todmorden residents, Bill and Steve, talk about the changes in the area and debate whether Hebden Bridge really is the lesbian capital of the UK.
The secret Leeds gay club
Molly reveals Leeds' 'secret gay club' and describes being accepted as a 'chaotic bisexual' by people in the city.
Experiences of 'gender euphoria'
Nāgakuśala describes their pleasure at being referred to using they/them pronouns, and discusses how 'performing' a specific gender can also be pleasurable.
The General Will and the One-off Theatre Company
Gerry remembers his involvement in radical theatre in Bradford and his part in a play called 'Men' performed by the One-off Theatre Company.
'Stuck between two worlds'
Emma explores the similarities between being bi and having Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.
The attraction of Hebden Bridge
Having lived in Hebden Bridge for nine years, David talks about how it's a special place but can feel like living in a bubble.
Coming out in the late 1990s
Aged 16 when Queer As Folk aired on TV, Ryan decided to tell his family and friends that he was gay, only to face homophobic bullying at school.
Starting afresh in West Yorkshire
After being forced to leave Cameroon because of his sexuality, Epie came to Leeds and started to feel at home.
Does the queer scene in Leeds do enough for people of colour?
Yvonne describes the 'burnout' some activists have experienced trying to make queer spaces more welcoming for people of colour.
Campaigning for change
Rosie talks about how the Stonewall Youth Campaigning Programme and a NUS LGBT conference inspired her to set up a LGBT Society at Bradford University.
Bradford Pride
Jonathan remembers the first Bradford Pride held in a rainy Peel Park in 2005 and talks about how it has changed since then.
Clive seeks medical help for being gay
On his mum's advice, Clive seeks medical help and is given unusual advice by a sympathetic psychologist.
Leeds Animation Workshop
Terry, from Leeds Animation Workshop, talks about the difficulty of including LGBT content in films made by the Workshop in their earlier days and she reflects on how things have changed.
Bradford's lesbian scene
Lorraine remembers the butch/femme lesbian scene in 1980s Bradford, the impact of feminism and her involvement with Bradford's Lesbian Line.
Representing women
Jane talks about her move to Leeds to start work with the Trade Union Resource and Information Centre and her later work with the council's Women's Equal Opportunities Group and the Women's Committee.
Not wanting to be gay
Tim talks of the friction between being gay and his church background that made it difficult for him to accept his sexuality.
'We even made the rings'
Karen and Yvette had a civil partnership but later married in 2018, after same-sex marriage was legalised. Here they describe their wedding and how it felt to be involved in making their wedding rings.
The early days of Yorkshire MESMAC
Tom Doyle, MESMAC's Chief Executive, remembers the development of "the MESMAC project" and some of its initiatives around sexual health awareness in the 1990s.
The world of same-sex ballroom dancing
Stuart has danced in international contests with a male dancing partner, as well as show teams and a hit film!
Marching Out Together
David and Andrew talk about making football matches more inclusive for LGBTIQ+ fans, and the history of the Leeds United supporters association, Marching Out Together. (Recorded at Leeds Pride 2018.)
The growth of TransLeeds
Pidge talks about taking over TransLeeds and reflects on how it has developed as an organisation and the support it offers to the trans community.
'I feel very attached to my queer identity'
Noah talks about coming out, first as a lesbian, then as bisexual, then as trans, then as a gay man, and then as a pansexual gay man.
Zines by Non-Binary Leeds
Leonidas outlines the creation of two zines, one encapsulating 'non-binary Leeds 2019' and another about the wider history of non-binary people.
Being bi, being visible and being proud
Emily describes the feeling of marching in Pride as part of Leeds Bi Group and her hope to inspire others.
How the Leeds Hunters inclusive rugby club started
Club archivist Jonathan looks back over the history of the Leeds Hunters RUFC.
Moving to Marsden and dealing with homophobia
Marion talks about her move to the village of Marsden in the early 2000s. She remembers feeling vulnerable and having to deal with homophobia but also how her daughter helped her to settle in.
Dating apps and the erasure of queer spaces
Hannah talks about her experiences of using dating apps and why they have become important as a means of meeting people.
Outed online
In 2017, Ahmed was outed in Bangladesh by an online article about LGBT rights, and fled his home after violent attack on his family. He describes his journey to the UK and how he ended up in Wakefield.
A goth on the gay scene
Andi remembers going out to bars and clubs in 1980s Leeds... and fitting in at some more than others!
Pink Picnic memories
Claire remembers the Pink Picnic, a precursor to Leeds Pride, which took place on Woodhouse Moor, Hyde Park.
Adopting as a gay couple
Rob explains his motivation for adoption and talks through the process that led to him and his partner becoming 'the first gay male couple to be assessed in the north of England'.
Remembering Roy
David describes how important it is to him as a gay man to keep alive the memory of his deceased long-term partner.
Ashleigh's first Pride
Ashleigh remembers how a meeting at Manchester Pride led to a wonderful friendship, in this video recorded at Happy Valley Pride 2018.
Assumptions about disability, sexuality and sex
Becca talks about feeling desexualised because of her chronic illness, and how this impacts on her experience of LGBTIQ+ spaces.
Following her own path
Pauline decides to take control of her life after the break-up of her marriage.
A song for Trans Day of Remembrance
Claye sings 'You Wish, You Wish', an 'angry and sad' adapted folk song, first performed at the Leeds TDOR vigil in 2018.
A network of lesbian mums
Susan describes the supportive local network of lesbian mums in 1980s Leeds.
Jacqui and a Drag King's Sideburns
Jacqui's mother sadly passed away, but she has a unique way of keeping her memory alive - within her drag act.
'I realised what it was to be a survivor'
JJ talks about the need for accountability in the queer DIY punk scene and how their zine 'I'm a Slut' made them realise that they were a survivor.
A 'Friend' in Leeds and Bradford
Eric recalls helping out on the befriending and counselling phone service 'Friend', set up by the Campaign for Homosexual Equality (CHE) in the 1970s.
Queer Mutiny and Jean Genet
Richard remembers legendary parties organised by Queer Mutiny where he first saw queer duo Jean Genet performing, wearing 'gaffer tape on their boobs, in their pants with raccoon makeup'.
'You can't pray the gay away'
Rebel explains that, for some people in religious families, coming out to their parents is simply not an option.
Debating how we lived our lives
Joy remembers the debates within feminism, and tensions between lesbians and straight women.
Fitting into communities
Kirsty explores how she's viewed in the D/deaf and queer communities and why she's sometimes 'not seen as deaf enough' but also 'not queer enough' as well.
Being a 'late bloomer'
Leo talks about developing M.E., which led to her being a 'late bloomer', and boxing up her feelings about sexuality.
Aversion therapy
Concerned about living a 'double life', Bill asked for 'treatment' for being gay from his doctor in the 1960s. He tried aversion therapy and describes what it involved.
The need to talk about mental health
Lisa discusses removing the invisibility and stigma around mental health by talking about it.
Queer Migrant Takeover
Axelle talks about the impact of going to Queer Migrant Takeover in Leeds, and how it felt to be in the majority for once.
Being Muslim and gay
Husein, who has an Iraqi father and Welsh mother, describes how his identity has room for both his sexuality and religious beliefs.
Coming out later in life
Coming out can be difficult but Sue describes how she was helped by friends and local LGBTIQ+ groups.
'No one would believe there was such a thing as a gay policeman'
Stuart fondly remembers a mysterious relationship with a policeman when he was living in a Huddersfield bedsit in the early 1960s.
The work and aims of TransLeeds
Oliver, the director of TransLeeds, talks about supporting the trans community and living in Wakefield.
Intersections of sexuality, gender and disability
AJ explores the difficulties of growing up as an autistic child and the inclusivity of different queer spaces.
Lesbians and gays unite against Section 28
Carl remembers Section 28 as a catalyst for change in Leeds.